Saturday, September 6, 2008
Let's get it started!
I created this blog with the idea that it could serve as a question/answer forum for areas such as party planning, organizing, parenting, relationships and above all, intimacy. I consider myself somewhat of a "sexpert" when it comes to intimacy. Having been a Pure Romance Consultant for many years, you continually educate yourself on human sexuality and this has definitely helped me to become the uninhibited "sexpert" that I am today. Now of course intimacy isn't the only area that I feel I can offer advice on. I am a good party planner and love nothing more than to throw a good party. No matter how big or how small the party, I'm ready to make it happen. I got married in 2004 and had only 11 weeks to plan our outdoor wedding. No sweat! Of course I couldn't plan a good party without great organization skills because the two really do go hand in hand. As for parenting, I think I've done a really good job at raising my two kids who are now 20 and 24. I took on the role of single mother when my kids were 6 and 10 and it was important to me that the end result would be two responsible, hard working young adults and that's exactly what I have. Oh they aren't perfect but hey, neither am I but they are both responsible young adults who never fail to say "I love you Mom" when they walk out the door or hang up the phone. I think I did something right. When it comes to relationships, I'm the person everyone comes to when they need advice on relationship problems. I've a very good listener, communicator and compromiser and above all, secret keeper and I love nothing more than to be able to help people in need. I've been told my a lot of people that I missed my calling and I should have been a therapist or counselor. At this point, I don't have the time or energy to go to school to become said therapist or counselor, but maybe, just maybe I can help some people with their problems through this blog. To ask a question, you have to sign in thru the comments at the end of the blog. You have an option to sign in by name (establish a free blog account) or anonymously. If you sign in anonymously, your name will not be used which I know is probably pretty important to most people. Once you sign in, you can post your question or your comment. I'll be checking my blog daily and can respond to your question/comment on my blog so you'll need to check back often! Of course you also have the option of sending me an email with your question but all responses will be posted on my blog. Welcome to my blog and ask away!
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Hi Sista, let me be the first to welcome you into the blogosphere as well as be your first comment. You know you already are MY sexpert and advisor, and it's time to share with the world! Luv, Jodi xoxo
Dear Con"sultry" Cheryl - what a cute name! It really fits you. Okay, here is my anonymous question and I sure hope it really is anonymous. I use to be a very sexual person but the last few years, I have lost my drive all together and basically have to fake any desire. I feel horrible about it and am too embarrassed to talk to my gyno because of course he's a man (what do they know about us women anyway?) The only change in my life is that I went through a rough spell and had to begin taking an antidepressant. I don't take any other medications at all. Any idea what I could do?
Dear Anonymous (and yes, your question did get posted anonymously. Guess what? Help is on the way! Anti-depressants along with birth control pills and other hormone therapy can drastically reduce a women's sex drive. Unfortunately, most doctors don't tell you this before they prescribe the medication. But there is help. Of course, one option is to get off the anti-depressants if you no longer need them. But if that isn't an option, and I totally understand if it isn't, then there are products available to help increase your sex drive. Pure Romance sells two products (Ex-T-Cee and XScream). Both are edible enhancing creams that increase your sex drive and help you to achieve a faster, harder orgasm. Both are very reasonably priced as well and they really do work. If you need further information, feel feel to post another comment or send me an email. Thanks and good luck.
Hey Cheryl, what a great idea and you are definitely the person everyone comes to for advice... lord knows you have helped me tons of times. I don't need any advice right now, but I know where I'll come when I do! Take care.
~Kathy
Hey there sweets,
you allready know all my problems!
Big Ben
(Parliment)
LOL
Hi Cheryl, A friend of yours passed on your blog address to me (guess she thought I might need some advice, which I do). I've suddenly found myself to be a single parent of two kids, ages 6 and 9. Your blog says you too were a single parent with kids at a young age. One of my biggest challenges as a single parent is finding the time to do everything, including paying bills, grocery shopping, etc. Any advice for a new single mother?
Hi Cheryl,
A friend of mine told me about your blog. What a great idea, especially since you can ask questions anonymously. Okay, here goes...I am a little bored in the bedroom.... okay, a lot bord. My husband and I have been together forever and sex has become so routine. I attended one of those toy parties recently and decided to buy some stuff to spice things up a bit. I bought some edible stuff plus my very first viberator. Now, I'm afraid to introduce it all to my husband. I'm just not sure if he'd be open to it or not since we've never talked about it. Any suggestions on how I should go about this? Thanks. Anonymously Bored
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